Mom says"I keep getting him out of trouble and 5 seconds later...he's back stuck in the same position" Loving, guiding parent tries to keep the baby from hurting himself while the baby has to fulfill his desire to have fun and climb under the chair. Neither pain or frustration keeps the baby from going back. His determination is so strong that he cries and throws a fit if he can't get to his "Thrill". Only until the baby is satisfied with something even more thrilling does the baby stop harming himself again, and again until he finally forgets about the chair. Babies natural state is always to seek pleasure and their reactions(emotions) are based on whether they feel the feelings they seek. It's not until they become toddlers do they add avoidance of pain to their memory as a motivation to their actions.
As adults, our brains use the programming of our childhood memories and survival instincts(coping skills), and use that as a guide of what we want or don't want. These beliefs are buried deep, locked behind closed doors, and they subconsciously determine what we experience daily until you no longer need that belief to survive. This programming is our Belief systems. Beliefs can hold you back or they can help you learn and grow. Beliefs' chief purpose is to ignite an emotion.
Beliefs are essential in our survival. They help us determine what's valuable, what's real, and who's worthy of our time, energy, and love.When a belief is held deeply within you it creates a path to understanding of why others share the same beliefs you do. Beliefs Create Connections.
Trying to change a habit about yourself or even trying to always seems to lead to frustration and more pain a retreat back to the old thrill begins until you reach a point of the final "No More", the point where you have had your share of suffering and you want to Surrender. This choice to Surrender, leads you to a doorway. Faith got you Here while Insight is behind the door waiting for you. With insight comes solutions. You find the place in your Mind, Body, and Soul where All is Well, the place where you become all right with yourself and you have the strength to deal with this issue at hand. All self improvement is about feeling differently about who you are, what your experiencing, and releasing the negative feelings you feel about the situation. No one can come in and do this for you, so Stop wasting time and energy on believing that "only if's" happen,(only if my mom, or only if he would just) I would be happy. Other people are too busy trying to figure out how to make themselves happy and probably have no idea how to help you. Everything we do is to learn about ourselves and others, what causes pain-avoid it, what causes pleasure-seek it. The good thing is we have a choice of what program we want to use in order to satisfy that need. You can run off the "Cave Man" programming where its all about Surviving or you can access the "Christ" programming where it's all about Thriving. You must make the choice by how you react to your everyday interactions with yourself and others. How are you treating your body? How are you treating your loved ones? How are you treating others?
Beliefs catch on and become a manifestation of information into our reality. This info can Bring us together or if can Tear us apart. it can make you feel good about yourself or it can make you look at where you need to make some adjusts in your Character. Information that makes you feel better about who you are is like a message sent directly from the Source of Love reaching deep through darkness of time and space to get to us to let us know that we are Ok and that we are Loved. This feeling is so powerful and feels so good that the person who hears it has to tell anyone they know who is suffering from the same thing, to heal them too. That's the Power of Love.
He answered: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind';and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'" Luke 10:27
If you want to take another step in overcoming an unhealthy habit, Decide to develop your Character. Set your intention to improve something you can control. Build up your character strengths and figure out what beliefs are keeping you stuck. One of the core beliefs Humanity is suffering from is Seeing and Believing that we are a Manifestion of Love and Light PERIOD. Not because what have or have done, but because we are Alive and LOVE wants it that way. Appreciate Love Today!!!!
The mark of real character is the person who finds the strength NOT to FALL in the moment of weakness unknown
Love,Peace&Blessings to All
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